Wayne’s Walk is both a place and an event.
The place is a path that runs from Riverdale Drive out into Short Beach Park. Now a town-built and -maintained concrete walkway, it used to be an informal accessway to the beach that Wayne Lecardo and others would tend to and keep tidy, since it was an off-shoot of their neighborhood.
The beginning of Wayne’s Walk, the place, at Riverdale Drive, is also the home to a stone and garden memorial to Lecardo, who at the age of 34, was killed by a drunk driver in 2007.
At that site on this past Saturday, June 21, Wayne’s Walk the place and Wayne’s Walk the event came together for the fourth year in a row.
At that site dozens of walkers came to symbolize the effort to increase awareness about the dangers of drunk driving and to raise money for victims of drunk driving — all part of the annual Wayne’s Walk 5K.
Darin Bershefsky welcomes the crowd to the Wayne’s Walk 5K on June 21. Greg Reilly photo.
U.S. Sen. Richard Blumenthal spoke about his “passion to fight drunk driving.” Mayor John Harkins attended to show his and the town’s continuous support of the program. State Rep. Laura Hoydick was there, as was a representative from the Connecticut chapter of MADD-Mothers Against Drunk Driving. The media was there, too, to transmit the messages.
Wayne’s Walk, the event, is a “memorial with a message,” according to Darin Michael Bershefsky, RN, who was a friend of Lecardo and who created the Wayne’s Walk Foundation to raise awareness and assist victims and families of victims of drunk driving.
Listening to Bershefsky at the start of the event one understands that the event was inspired by Lecardo himself. Wayne Lecardo was, Bershefsky said, a person who lived as a testimony to the belief that “it is better to give than to receive.”
By all accounts Lecardo lived with constant concern for others, and he helped others in countless ways.
Blumenthal told the audience at the start of the walk that “Wayne’s memory is inspiring.” The senator conveyed the common allegory of true generosity being depicted by one who plants a tree even though he knows he will not benefit from its shade.
Wayne’s Walk Foundation leader Darin Bershefsky with his daughter and Sen. Richard Blumenthal (D-CT) at the impact part of the event. Greg Reilly photo.
It was that kind of spirit that guided Lecardo’s life, Blumenthal said, and it is that spirit of goodness toward others that is guiding Lecardo’s friends and family who now work to help fight drunk driving.
“Life is so fragile,” Blumenthal said, and “the scourge of drunk driving is still prevalent at all age groups.”
Two families who are victims of drunk driving — one that lost a son who was hit by a drunk driver and another who had family members injured as a car literally drove through their house in the middle of the night — spoke at the Wayne’s Walk event. They tearfully thanked the participants and the foundation leaders for their support in the wake of their tragedies.
According to Bershefsky, the foundation raised over $10,000 with this year’s Walk event, which brings the total raised to over $50,000 since 2011. The foundation has given over $20,000 in financial support to Connecticut victims and families over the past four years with things like burial costs and medications for pain, Bershefsky said.
Following the walk in and around Short Beach, families gathered at the park pavilion where there were games and activities for children, live music, food and beverage for all.
Participants begin the Wayne’s Walk 5K on Saturday, June 21, on a pathway to Short Beach Park. The event raised over $10,000 to support victims of drunk driving. Greg Reilly photo.